Have you ever met a girl and you were both clearly interested in seeing each other again, but for some reason you never got her out on the first date? She gave you her number, you started texting each other, but then something weird happened…It’s simple. When you learn the rules of the game, you can play to win.
You didn’t know how to keep her interested in you over text long enough to get her out on a date. texting is like a big mystery for a lot of us guys. Once you learn the “secret structure” of flirting over text, it’s like having a superpower…
It’s like some kind of secret language that we’re expect to already know how to speak. an unfair advantage over every other guy she’s talking to.
Texting IS that superpower, and here’s why it’s critical to learn it if you want more women in your life: Also, it’s important to learn this because, if she’s at all attractive, she has other guys who are texting her as well.
If she’s getting a bunch of typical, boring texts from you, and other guys are sending her texts that make her feel good and capture her interest, she’s going to go out with them and not you. To begin with, the phone number by itself is totally useless, and here’s why: When a girl gives you her number, she’s not giving you a guarantee of a date.
She’s only giving you an invitation to keep contacting her.
You still have to capture her attention and get her out on a date.
Let’s start with how to actually learn about texting.
The first thing you need to know is that learning how to text a girl is not like learning math. Most guys won’t bother reading a post like this, and so you’ll be way ahead of them and have an unfair advantage.
In other words, when you learn that 1 1 = 2, you don’t need to learn anything else to understand it better. Texting is more like learning how to speak another language, or play an instrument, or learning a sport. With that said, let’s dive into the five principles of texting.
Principle #1 – You must think about things from her viewpoint – You probably don’t realize what the daily reality of an attractive girl is.
She only has so much available attention, and everyone wants a piece of it. I means that she’s not going to respond to your texts just because you want her to.
She always has options, and so she doesn’t “have” to reply to your texts if they don’t spark her interest.