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Another example: If you want an open minded, world traveling vegan with dreadlocks, it’s probably not the best idea to frequent black tie events.It might be a good idea, however, to travel around yourself and sleep in hostels. Tip for shy people: Join a community One of the best ways to meet interesting people of both sexes is joining a community.I am talking about sports clubs, debating teams, cooking classes, martial arts, yoga, creative writing classes, and whatever else people enjoy doing together.Joining a community is especially helpful for shy people because you get to know a lot of new people with similar interests in a way that is natural and fun. Here is what you should look for in a community: Try different communities to find one that you truly enjoy being a part of.You can test most communities for free by just sending an email to the organizer, asking if you may attend the next meeting to see if it's right for you.Please keep in mind that joining a community for the sake of meeting women is needy.