The former Major League Baseball player who was a Toronto Blue Jays analyst for Sportsnet, was fired for “inappropriate behavior and comments” toward female employees, Rogers Media announced Nov. Zaun, 46, had played for nine major league teams over 16 seasons.NBC News booker Matt Zimmerman was accused of inappropriate conduct by multiple women at the network. One of the more ridiculous myths about “true love” is the idea of the soulmate – that there is someone out there who is your perfect match.A good relationship is about navigating the numerous differences between you – over politics, food, money, how to raise children.It’s those differences that make life more interesting, as our lover opens up a whole new way of seeing or understanding the world.
But if you can both talk honestly about what irritates or upsets you and why, you are more likely to understand each other better.
It can feel easier to avoid being honest if we feel that could be hurtful, but it is only with honesty that trust is built, and trust is the essence of a good relationship. There are different qualities to sex at different stages in a long relationship: first, passion; the urgency of reproductive sex; snatched sex in the early years of parenthood; then the slower intimacy of midlife onwards.
But our culture presents only one type as being valid: youthful, vigorous, usually penetrative.
It is possible to maintain a happy sex-life for decades with the same person.
It may not be as often, or the sort of sex that you think you should be having, or think others must be having (but aren’t) – just relax and enjoy this special kind of intimacy together.
Appreciate what life still has to offer while you can.